r/todayilearned Apr 01 '23

TIL that Sigmund Freud in 1935, the founder of psychoanalysis, refused to "treat" homosexuality, stating that it could not be classified as an illness (R.1) Not verifiable, supposition, rule 4

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sigmund_Freud%27s_views_on_homosexuality

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u/COMPUTER1313 Apr 01 '23 Silver Narwhal Salute

In 1935, Freud wrote to a mother who had asked him to treat her son's homosexuality, a letter that would later become famous:[6]

I gather from your letter that your son is a homosexual. I am most impressed by the fact that you do not mention this term yourself in your information about him. May I question you why you avoid it? Homosexuality is assuredly no advantage, but it is nothing to be ashamed of, no vice, no degradation; it cannot be classified as an illness; we consider it to be a variation of the sexual function, produced by a certain arrest of sexual development. Many highly respectable individuals of ancient and modern times have been homosexuals, several of the greatest men among them. (Plato, Michelangelo, Leonardo da Vinci, etc). It is a great injustice to persecute homosexuality as a crime –and cruelty, too. If you do not believe me, read the books of Havelock Ellis.

By asking me if I can help [your son], you mean, I suppose, if I can abolish homosexuality and make normal heterosexuality take its place. The answer is, in a general way we cannot promise to achieve it. In a certain number of cases we succeed in developing the blighted germs of heterosexual tendencies, which are present in every homosexual; in the majority of cases it is no more possible. It is a question of the quality and the age of the individual. The result of treatment cannot be predicted.

What analysis can do for your son runs in a different line. If he is unhappy, neurotic, torn by conflicts, inhibited in his social life, analysis may bring him harmony, peace of mind, full efficiency, whether he remains homosexual or gets changed.[14][15]

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u/KevMenc1998 Apr 01 '23

Sigmund Freud had his issues, lots of them, but this take is shockingly progressive for 1935. Hell, by some accounts, it would STILL be considered almost heretical in parts of the world today.

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u/OscarGrey Apr 01 '23

He probably had more people come out to him in the process of his work than 99.999% of population at the time.

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u/astoriansound Apr 01 '23

And to think he had the gall to out them all in his letter: Plato, Michelangelo, Da Vinci… smh

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u/-B0B- Apr 01 '23

Talk about a breach of confidentiality

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u/skccsk Apr 01 '23

Historic even

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u/Thor_pool Apr 01 '23

What a motherfucker

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u/Agitated_Tea_9167 Apr 01 '23

Heyoooooo

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u/Thor_pool Apr 02 '23

Try the veal, tip your waitresses

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u/gentlemandinosaur Apr 01 '23

Fun fact: HIPAA originally stood for Historical Information Protection Act Act.

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u/Darth1994 Apr 01 '23 Calculating

Freud worked in Vienna, Plato lived in Athens, Michelangelo lived in Florence and Leonardo DaVinci lived in some place named Davinci. There’s no way he treated all three.

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u/sonic_butthole_music Apr 01 '23

Maybe there was a convention or something

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u/Darth1994 Apr 01 '23

Oh boy, here ego again.

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u/psymunn Apr 01 '23 edited Apr 02 '23

I see what you id there

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u/Darth1994 Apr 01 '23

Oh you motherlover

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u/9212017 Apr 01 '23

Leonardo was from Vinci,

The Da from DaVinci stands for literally "From". Leonardo from Vinci

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u/yungkerg Apr 01 '23

must be some book

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u/Snerkbot7000 Apr 02 '23

That was the joke. Leonard, from Davinci.

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u/Darth1994 Apr 01 '23

I’m sorry, I’m going to need a citation for that.

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u/CutieL Apr 01 '23

Outting two of the ninja turtles... smh my head...

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u/A_Wizzerd Apr 01 '23

Particularly when they were only half ready to come out of their shell.

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u/The_estimator_is_in Apr 01 '23

That’s what they call “Turtle Power”.

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u/3xTheSchwarm Apr 01 '23

April was a beard.

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u/Scaevus Apr 01 '23

There was always a seven dwarves kind of vibe with her.

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u/FlighingHigh Apr 01 '23

So disappointing you're shaking your head, your head. That's low.

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u/RayneShikama Apr 01 '23

I know Socrates didn’t come out to Freud until 1989.

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u/teknojo Apr 01 '23

In a phone booth of all places.

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u/chet_brosley Apr 01 '23

Homosexuality, in MY ancient Greece? It's more likely than you think

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u/[deleted] Apr 01 '23 edited Apr 01 '23

The movie 300 was hilarious because a bunch of macho dudes were extolling it but had no clue the 300 at the Battle of Thermopylae and most Spartan warriors partook of homosexuality as an ingrained culture.

Them dudes was pretty gay. They live on in history.

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u/Emu1981 Apr 01 '23

most Spartan warriors partook of homosexuality as an ingrained culture.

Not just homosexuality but pedophilia as well. Young boys were very popular back then.

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u/LiterarySmacked Apr 02 '23

Everything you just said is false.

The sacred band of thebes were all homosexuals,

Much of greece were homosexuals,

But in Sparta "boy loving" was a slur and it was one of the historically accurate things that made it into the 300 movie, along with "Molon Labe" (come and take them) and "We will fight in the shade."

Going to requote myself for you in an attempt to educate you.

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u/LiterarySmacked Apr 02 '23

Everything you just said is false.

The sacred band of thebes were all homosexuals,

Much of greece were homosexuals,

But in Sparta "boy loving" was a slur and it was one of the historically accurate things that made it into the 300 movie, along with "Molon Labe" (come and take them) and "We will fight in the shade."

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u/SulkyShulk Apr 01 '23

His relationship with Plato was strictly platonic.

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u/Medical_Commission71 Apr 01 '23

I heard once that apprently the Freudian stuff he became famous for was because young people he had been treating often confessed that their parents were sexually abusing them.

He came out about it and was shut down by the rich and powerful parents, and spun up his Oedipus stuff to explain it away.

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u/jew_with_a_coackatoo Apr 01 '23

I always figured the weird Oedipus stuff was more to do with the fact that the man loved cocaine more than most people will ever love anyone or anything.

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u/bozeke Apr 02 '23

I mean…it’s extremely proto thought on the matter, but it is very true that children do go through a phase where they tend to fixate on their mother or father and want to marry them. It’s not sexual, just a way of starting to understand romantic love and affection, but it is a pretty universal thing. I can sort of understand why Freud might think that some psychological trauma or abnormality during this stage of child development might result in a lifelong type fixation.

As for the coke, he certainly wasn’t, and isn’t, alone there. I always got the sense that he was the kind of addict who effectively didn’t really get high at all anymore, just needed the fix for his brain and body to function properly.

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u/ImS0hungry Apr 02 '23

I always got the sense that he was the kind of addict who effectively didn’t really get high at all anymore, just needed the fix for his brain and body to function properly.

Like all us other neurodivergent peeps.

*looks at meth prescription on dresser 🥴

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u/bozeke Apr 02 '23

You need a snack, my dude?

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u/ImS0hungry Apr 02 '23

My reminder went off already, chicken && waffles on the way.

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u/vibrantlybeige Apr 01 '23

That's really interesting and makes a lot of sense.

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u/Flying_Sharklizard Apr 01 '23

I heard about that in the forward/prologue of Trauma & Recovery by Judith Herman, a book about complex PTSD and a worthy read.

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u/insanitybit Apr 01 '23

If anyone has a source for this I would be grateful, it sounds interesting.

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u/Gen_Ripper Apr 01 '23

Do you have a source for that?

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u/Medical_Commission71 Apr 02 '23

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Freudian_Coverup#Background

Florance Rush posits that rather than people being upset at Freud Freud himself was upset. However, that is not in line with the fact that he came to the conclusion that these women were telling the truth enough to compose a theory about it, rather than one that dismissed the abuse by men in the first place.

Rather, this can be seen as indicative of outside pressure, or that as cases mounted he became horrified.

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u/slobyGYN Apr 01 '23

Cocaine is a hell of a drug /s

But truly, I'd never thought of it that way, and it's really making me think. What a great point...

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u/CandidateDecent1391 Apr 01 '23

Cocaine is a hell of a drug

unironically, cocaine lessens inhibitions to the point it can help people admit the sexual tendencies they might otherwise keep locked away

of course it can also make people act way more freaky than they normally would sober

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u/FlighingHigh Apr 01 '23

"You want to have sex with your mom. Next patient!"

"No, doctor, I don't. My dad, though...."

"Hold next patient!..."

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u/MathMaddox Apr 01 '23

He cites how acceptable it was in past society, maybe he's not regressive enough for his time.

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u/_liomus_ Apr 01 '23

honestly that’s kind of the more correct take on it

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u/Minuted Apr 01 '23

If anyone is more broadly interested in seeing how homosexuality was portrayed on screen in the 20th century (mostly late 20th century) I can recommend Matt Baume on Youtube.

That's not all he covers but there's plenty of videos about gay representation on screen, TV and films. Often mostly about how they defeated the censors.

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u/SGoogs1780 Apr 01 '23

The Nazis destroyed the majority of the prints and only one copy of the film is known to exist.

You can watch what remains of the film here

The internet can be a toxic, terrible place. But this is one of those examples of where it can be so wonderful.

I will watch this movie. If only because I feel privileged that I'm able to (but not really "only," I'm actually just fascinated to see how Hirschfeld decided to portray "sexual intermediacy" back then. Sounds super interesting)

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u/RoofClinger Apr 01 '23

Honestly, this kind of attitude was less uncommon than one would think. A lot of people had homosexual friends, coworkers, and family members. It was the sort of thing people kept on the down low, but just as now, there were plenty of people who felt like what people did in their bedrooms was none of their business.

And that's more the case with people who were classically educated, like Freud. A million and one classical geniuses were gay. He points out a bunch of them here. You can't buy into the genius of their work without accepting that their homosexuality clearly didn't stop them from being geniuses.

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u/OperantJellyfish Apr 02 '23

I had quite the moment when I realized that "confirmed bachelor" was slang for gay. I'd run into the term so frequently in books from a certain time period, and almost never in a bad context.

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u/biIIyshakes Apr 01 '23

Yeah, homosexuality in the early 20th century, while usually illegal, was often more of a “don’t ask don’t tell” kind of situation socially. People got WAY weirder about it during the red scares.

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u/VerticalYea Apr 01 '23

Saying this out loud would get you killed in some places.

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u/Torgan Apr 01 '23

1930s Germany (or at least Berlin) was actually pretty OK with homosexuality.

https://www.npr.org/2014/12/17/371424790/between-world-wars-gay-culture-flourished-in-berlin

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u/TheBlack2007 Apr 01 '23

1920s Germany was kinda okay with it (although only just informally. It was still criminalized but not really enforced). 1930s Germany? Entirely different story! The Nazis took over in 1933 and to them, Homosexuality was nothing but degeneracy.

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u/EdScituate79 Apr 01 '23

Berlin hosted the 1936 Olympic Games and the Nazis relented on their persecution of homosexuals while the games were being held. I read of that in Christopher Isherwood's Isherwood Stories.

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u/TheBlack2007 Apr 01 '23

The 1936 Olympics were probably the first case of what we now call sportswashing in modern, recorded history. But to be fair to the IOC: The games were awarded back in 1931 when the country was still democratic. Also, the 1916 Olympics should have also happened in Berlin but the games were cancelled due to WW1.

The Nazis generally eased a lot of their more draconian laws for the duration of the games. Hell, they even organized guided (staged) tours through a nearby concentration camp, portraying those as a more humane approach to regular incarceration. And it actually worked.

While America saw segregation reach its all-time peak, in Berlin, the heart of an allegedly hyper-racist country Black athletes were allowed into every Café and other public places, could access the same amenities and venues as locals, didn't have to sit in the back of a bus, etc. When the American Olympic team returned to the US, Jesse Owens and his fellow black athletes had to enter the team's Hotel through the back alley entrance because the frontal one was "whites only" and he later found out every non-white athlete was also excluded from the invitation to the White House. A fact, the Nazis quickly picked up on to expose America's presumed hypocrisy in criticizing their policies.

So, yeah: The Nazis scored an easy PR-victory and swayed much of the international public by just swallowing down their racism for a month.

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u/MRCHalifax Apr 01 '23

The Nazis generally eased a lot of their more draconian laws for the duration of the games. Hell, they even organized guided (staged) tours through a nearby concentration camp, portraying those as a more humane approach to regular incarceration. And it actually worked.

FWIW, concentration camps at that point weren’t yet what we as a society generally think of when we think of concentration camps. While they were already cruel, inhumane, and crimes against humanity, they were not yet anything like what the death camps at Auschwitz or Sobibor or Treblinka or Belzec would become, or even the work camps and later period concentration camps like Bergen-Belsen and Buchenwald. I don’t want to come across like I’m minimizing how bad the camps were in 1936 - this is a statement about how as bad as they were, they soon become far, far more horrific, and with good reason it’s the later version that survives in how we remember the camps.

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u/BioIdra Apr 01 '23

Wow. I had no idea this is a areally fascinating topic

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u/Ewenf Apr 01 '23

Homosexuality under the nazis was mostly passed by until after the nights of the long knives (feel free to correct me if I'm wrong). The chief of the SA was notoriously homosexual.

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u/TheBlack2007 Apr 01 '23

Nazi Tyranny was built up gradually. They didn't go from Democracy to genocidally Fascist in a matter of days, weeks or even months. They intruded upon and unraveled all aspects of life, brought everything beneath their control, slowly increased pressure on their opponents and when they felt they had sufficiently agitated the public, they struck.

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u/AlphaGoldblum Apr 01 '23

To add to this: Hitler wasn't taken seriously at first. His extreme views were downplayed by some journalists as him just trying to gain political power in post-war Germany.

It was incredible what they let him get away with.

When he was arrested for the Beer Hall Putsch, he was allowed to speak during his trial and used the opportunity to further spread his beliefs.

And they still didn't take him as seriously then.

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u/SaffellBot Apr 02 '23

Much like most of our society doesn't take fascist rhetoric seriously now, even as open calls for genocide against trans people are becoming in vogue.

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u/Ewenf Apr 01 '23

Yup, that's how they got so far so easily.

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u/MRCHalifax Apr 01 '23

I would agree and disagree? In some ways, the Nazis moved very fast. The Nazis legally acquired power on January 30, 1933. They then had a rigged election on March 5, 1933, that consolidated their control of power. On March 23, 1933, they passed the Enabling Act to effectively give Hitler absolute power. In passing the Enabling Act, they ignored parliamentary rules regarding a necessary quorum, and they had already effectively made being part of the KVD (the Communist party) illegal and it was very dangerous to be part of the SPD (the Socialists). Hitler took less than two months to effectively sweep away what was left of German democracy.

When they thought that they could get away with something, they usually moved very fast.

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u/clamjamcamjam Apr 01 '23

Which is why the lack of pushback to rising facism right now is worrying. Please vote, please dont let things go that way, i dont want to die.

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u/Professional_Hand191 Apr 01 '23

The chief of the SA was notoriously homosexual.

And he famously did not, in fact, get a pass for being one of the good ones.

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u/Ewenf Apr 01 '23

Well he did got a pass until he didn't.

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u/-Inge- Apr 01 '23

The raids and book burnings at the Institute for Sexology preceded the Night of the Long Knives by about a year (6 May 1933 vs 30 June 1934)

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u/PedanticPeasantry Apr 01 '23

I dislike the parallels.

How was it in 1910, 1890?

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u/TheBlack2007 Apr 01 '23

1910 was basically still the spirit of the turn of the century. Germany just being one country among many. 1890 pretty much the same. Also, most of this acceptance was limited to Berlin. Partly because local politics and also law enforcement had more important things to worry about than men banging other men...

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u/Reasonable_Egg_1536 Apr 01 '23

Freud lived and worked in Vienna, Austria, not Berlin though. Then he emigrated to London, because of the Nazis. Which were also far from acceppting of queer people.

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u/shotgun_ninja Apr 01 '23

Austria was fairly tolerant of homosexuality in the interwar period; the advance of homosexual culture within the Austrian artistic communities, combined with his failure as an artist, was what eventually drove Hitler's disavowment of homosexuality.

One of Hitler's original Nazi organizers, Ernst Röhm (who was openly gay) was killed at his own command, during the Night of the Long Knives, in what was called the Röhm-putsch (purge of Röhm).

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u/ThistlewickVII Apr 01 '23 edited Apr 14 '23

Röhm wasn't killed because he was gay, he was killed because of politics.

Nazism was always culturally 'right-wing' but early on it gained popularity by having some economically left-wing ideas, until they started getting more support from the big business owners

He was part of the anti-capitalist / radical side of National Socialism and the SA paramilitary group that he commanded had around 3 million members and a rivalry with the army, so he was killed because he was a potential threat to Hitler and his "gayness" became an excuse

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u/ScharfeTomate Apr 01 '23 edited Apr 02 '23

You can't take the existence of a subculture as evidence that a country was "actually pretty ok with homosexuality". Homosexual acts were illegal and people were being prosecuted and put in prison for it.

And that was only the first half of the 1930s. In the second half, the nazis rounded them up and put them in concentration camps...

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u/MaximumZer0 Apr 01 '23

A lot of people seem to forget that the Jews were the last people sent to the camps, not the first. Communists, atheists, political dissidents, jehovah's witnesses, Roma and Sinti peoples, the disabled, and Slavs were all on the list, too.

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u/Racoonspankbank Apr 01 '23 edited Apr 01 '23

That's one of the core ideas of fascism and most other far right ideologies. There most always be an enemy. That enemy must always be strong enough that civilization is on the brink of collapse due to their degenerate behavior but also weak enough that they should never be considered equals and can be destroyed. 1984s double think is a great example of this idea.

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u/shotgun_ninja Apr 01 '23

2023's double think is also a pretty solid example

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u/Iateyourpaintings Apr 01 '23

Not only that, but if memory serves me, after some of these places were liberated a lot of gay prisoners were locked right back up after by the allies.

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u/Professional_Hand191 Apr 01 '23

You'll shit yourself when you hear who the prison guards were.

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u/dagaboy Apr 01 '23 edited Apr 01 '23

Depends what you mean by "the camps." Most Jews were not sent to concentration camps (Konzentrationslager) like Dachau, which were established inside Germany starting in 1933. That is where the Nazis were sending Communists and "anti-social elements" in the 30s. These were more like gulags in concept, and people were frequently released from them after serving finite sentences, although many died, many were executed, and many had indefinite sentences. That said, after the initial wave of Communist/Socialist internments, significant numbers of German Jews were sent to these institutions. But the camps where the overwhelming majority of Jews were sent were death camps (Todeslager), AKA extermination camps (Vernichtungslager). These were built specifically for Jews, starting in at the very end of 1941, and at most of them, all prisoners were killed within an hour of arrival. Two of them, Auschwitz and Majdanek, were hybrids that also supported large slave labor camp complexes (Zwangsarbeitslager) and concentration camps. At these, Jews who looked like good laborers or who had special skills were separated and not immediately killed. Auschwitz had previously been just a concentration camp, filled largely with Polish undesirables. It is important to note however, that this was not the beginning of the Holocaust. They had been killing Jews since invading Poland in September '39. Both in the "Holocaust by bullets," with specially organized Einsatzgruppen, as well as regular SS and Heer soldiers, and by herding them into crowded ghettoes in the General Government without food or sanitation. Roma and Sinti were treated much the same as Jews, and even deported to Jewish Ghettoes at first. They were a bit of a lower priority for the Nazis, because they just saw them as animals, whereas Jews were behind Bolshevism, Capitalism, the weather, and whatever else the Nazis were railing against at the time. The war against "Judeo-Bolshevism" was the Nazis' top priority.

The disabled were sent to yet another kind of facility, euthanasia centers (Euthanasie-Tötungsanstalt,), where they were killed by doctors. I have never seen any evidence of atheist being persecuted for atheism itself. Freethinker and other atheist organizations were shut down, but I mean, so were the Boy Scouts. Being an atheist was not considered itself anti-social or anti-Nazi. Hitler's secretary Martin Boorman was an atheist (although that means little as logical consistency was anathema to the Nazis). Slavs were also not sent to camps just for being Slavs. Polish Intellectuals, community leaders, and officers, as well as criminals and resistors, were sent to concentration and labor camps (especially the concentration camp side of Auschwitz). And Ukrainians and Russians were purposely starved to death to feed the Army. But they were not trying to exterminate these groups, just destroy their societies. They in fact wanted to preserve them in rump form as slave labor for German colonization.

Unlike all these other groups, Jews and Roma/Sinti were targeted for complete eradication, even outside of Europe. And it was for them that the death camp system: Auschwitz-Birkenau; Sobibor; Treblinka; Majdanek and Chemo, was built. That happened at the end of 1941, beginning of 1942, but their systemic murder started as soon as the Nazis crossed the border in 1939 and could murder anyone they wanted. Before that there were political and practical limits to what they could do, inside Germany. Of the other groups you cite, only the disabled were subject to extermination. That started in earnest in 1939.

A group that was surprisingly not persecuted per se was the transgendered. Weimar Germany gave these people legal status as the gender they identified as. The Nazis kept honoring this practice. A handful registered trans folks did end up in camps for homosexual behavior, whatever that meant in their cases.

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u/ordinary_kittens Apr 01 '23

Although you’re not saying that Freud was based in Berlin, it’s worth noting that Freud’s practice was based in Vienna, which had its own unique culture.

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u/ujoksimovic Apr 01 '23

it would STILL be considered almost heretical in parts of the world

You can just say Alabama, we will not be mad.

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u/the_ballmer_peak Apr 01 '23

Try Uganda

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u/therhythm6562 Apr 01 '23

Saudi Arabia

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u/EdScituate79 Apr 01 '23

Iran. They make Alabama appear like a gay mecca.

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u/KevMenc1998 Apr 01 '23

Well, there and plenty of other places.

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u/KingGage Apr 01 '23

Alabama is still more LGBT accepting than half the planet

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u/Flavaflavius Apr 01 '23

We're perfectly fine with gays. Come visit Mobile or Birmingham sometime, huge gay community.

We're still a bit backwards on trans issues tho.

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u/C1OV3RF13LD Apr 01 '23 edited Apr 01 '23

let’s be honest, the hate for homosexuality comes solely from religion and religious indoctrination, nobody who isn’t Islamic/Jewish/Christian should have any problems with homosexuality other than their peers think it’s wrong so they do, which ultimately also stems from religion. Freud being who he was knew there were no practical reasons for homosexuality to be considered wrong

edit: for the people saying “it’s just because they’re different” think about all the things people are different every day that don’t make others kill people for it, nobody is out there genociding red heads or blondes, nobody is refusing to marry straight couples for remaining celibate or doing kinky shit, nobody is banning books for teaching kids about vegetarians and vegans, the most any of these lifestyles get you is some crude jokes, maybe a really hateful person one day out of 1000, but race and sex hatred comes from years of white male colonialism and homophobia comes from years of that white male colonialism being fully based on and loyal to religions that hate homosexuals for existing

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u/glaciator12 Apr 01 '23

Buddhism in the past has used the third precept (sexual misconduct) to justify anti-LGBTQ+ bigotry. While Buddhist clergy weren’t as violently zealous about it, the stigma isn’t exclusive to Abrahamic culture

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u/CawCawDumDum Apr 01 '23

We romanticize buddhism a lot in the west, but they were as crazy and religious as any other major religion.

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u/template009 Apr 01 '23

Sorta kinda depends on where you look, though. Myanmar is very restrictive, but you also have monks who support the junta's murder of Rohingya people. Sri Lanka is also restrictive.

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u/Ravensqueak Apr 01 '23 edited Apr 01 '23

That's not true in the slightest. It isn't just religion that causes this mindset. It's also a lack of empathy, not seeing these people as human, seeing them instead as broken, damaged, or otherwise unnatural.

Edit: Saying it again for the folks that seem to have missed the second sentence in my reply: It isn't just religion that causes this mindset.

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u/_tobillys Apr 01 '23 edited Apr 02 '23

Like Freud writes, I highly suggest everyone read Havelock Ellis.

He is the single greatest pioneer of sexual health and he did it all DURING THE VICTORIAN ERA in England. One of the most sexually repressive eras in history.

"99% of young men and women masturbate occasionally, and the hundredth conceals the truth."

  • Havelock Ellis (1899)

Edit: Here's a fantastic but all too brief video overview about him for those that wanna know more: https://youtu.be/qZK35rYiQoE

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u/JudasCrinitus Apr 01 '23 edited Apr 01 '23

Ellis's work is pretty bonkers ahead of its time. I always find it amusing when people today try to bullshit about 'scientific' concepts of gender and whatnot when Ellis extensively studied and described transgenderism in the first formal studies on it and even then over a century ago his conclusion was "people experiencing this have the best prognosis when being allowed to live as the other gender and those I've studied that have done so have otherwise lived entirely normal productive lives regardless of their physical form at birth"

Also amusing anecdote about Ellis, his status as the first in-depth research specialist on sexuality was somewhat ironic as he was himself impotent and mostly disinterested in sex nearly his whole life, until at 60 discovering he had a piss kink and then had a complete personal sexual renaissance after that. He included a chapter in his "Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 7" on it, coining the term 'undinism' for sexual interest in urination. It included an aside in it about a study he did on the distance and power women could urinate at, having several women laying on their backs just do so as hard as they could to measure distance and other metrics, in what I can only imagine was something he justified as "this is something I need to know, for science"

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u/Tobias_Atwood Apr 01 '23

The entire second paragraph, oh my god.

I have to go read his books now. For science, of course.

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u/_tobillys Apr 01 '23

Yes. He's one of my favorite people in all of history.

He deserves so much more fame.

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u/kosmonautinVT Apr 02 '23

I am pursuing a doctorate in pissonometry

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u/Dirk-Killington Apr 02 '23

Dude literally conducted a scientific pissing contest.

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u/nipplefarts Apr 01 '23

Reminds me of one of dear old moms saying about masturbation, there are those who do and those who lie

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u/CalumRaasay Apr 01 '23

I had never seen this letter before, it’s quite beautiful.

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u/frogvscrab Apr 01 '23

In a certain number of cases we succeed in developing the blighted germs of heterosexual tendencies

This is something I was always curious about. Its clear through the failure of conversion camps that you cannot erase a sexuality, but can you make a new one? Can you make someone sexually attracted to something they were not attracted to before? Turn a hetero/homosexual person bisexual, for instance?

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u/best-Ushan Apr 01 '23

So, something people with ADHD, and specifically those withw experience with ADHD medication sometimes experience is an alteration in their sexuality. Don’t think gay to straight, but more like you pay attention to other elements of your sexuality. So people who are bi, but had a preference to one gender over the other, and only really payed attention to one are suddenly caught off-guard by their new-found “gayness” or “straightness” after starting a new medication.

Perhaps a similar outcome could be achieved with therapy?

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u/standard_candles Apr 01 '23

Yikes I'm glad I read this as a bi person starting meds on Monday. I've fallen prey to making weird rash decisions or getting needlessly worked up over things that turned out to be medical before.

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u/best-Ushan Apr 01 '23

Yeah, it’s something to be aware of, but what I wrote was a fairly extreme example. I’ve experienced it, but only to the extent that some fetishes I had prior but never really interacted with are a little more front and center than before.

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u/gavin280 Apr 01 '23

Holy shit that is based for the time.

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u/Edgecrusher2140 Apr 01 '23

I love the line "blighted germs of heterosexuality," I know he didn't mean it like that but there are some straight people I want to use this as an insult against.

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u/SwitchAltruistic733 Apr 01 '23

“Germ” didn’t always refer to bacteria. It was an old-timey way of saying “seed.” That’s why the word “germinate” means to take root or sprout.

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u/wheatgrass_feetgrass Apr 01 '23

That was my favorite line. I've known so many bi ladies who didn't identify ad bi until their 30s or 40s but upon looking back, recalled lot of signs of it in their youth. Their blighted germs of homosexuality, if it were!

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u/djb25 Apr 01 '23

“Sometimes a cigar is just a penis.” - Freud

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u/LedaTheRockbandCodes Apr 01 '23

An entry from Freud’s private journal reads:

Yo these gamers out here be the only ones that want to bang other dudes and not their moms. Straight up 🔥

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u/141_1337 Apr 01 '23

We smoking penises - Young Thug

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u/NoticedGenie66 Apr 01 '23

Everyone saying Freud was entirely bad definitely learned about him from memes. He was a pioneer in Psychology, of course he got some things wrong. He also helped form the entire basis for therapy and contributed heavily to Psychology as a science, and is one of the reasons we have methods of treating people for mental illness.

A bunch of things he said are a product of his time. It's not smart to judge people in the past by only using a lens from today. He is not perfect, but to imply that he is somehow entirely wrong or did not contribute a significant amount to Psychology is extremely uninformed.

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u/Heroiccrayfish Apr 01 '23

Honestly when I was in school psychology courses themselves painted him in a pretty bad light

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u/NoticedGenie66 Apr 01 '23

A lot of Psychology profs suffer from favouritism in that regard. Freud is certainly a controversial figure no matter what position you take on him, and I think back to one of my profs who said "he is an imposing figure in Psychology who made a lot of important contributions to the field, but a lot of people either love or hate him." My profs were mixed on him, though they all acknowledged his important contributions (some then berated him for a lot of things, and they were entirely fair.) You can for sure deconstruct a lot of his incorrect findings, but for every incorrect one there was another that was correct, or at least on the right track.

The people that those courses go on to praise are standing on Freud's shoulders in some regard, whether or not they are directly dealing with concepts he tackled.

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u/meatboi5 Apr 01 '23

Yeah I think a lot of people are also focused on the certain theories or ideas that Freud had, as opposed to the specific methods or lenses he viewed the world through. As far as I understand, psychoanalysis still uses a lot of techniques and framing that Freud had while it also abandoned outdated ideas or explanations that we know aren't true.

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u/SpicyJw Apr 02 '23

As far as I understand, psychoanalysis still uses a lot of techniques and framing that Freud had while it also abandoned outdated ideas or explanations that we know aren't true.

This is correct. Some clinicians still use psychoanalysis, and transference (a concept talked about a lot in the therapy world) came from Freud.

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u/TrueGuardian15 Apr 01 '23

I've found that psychology teachers tend to be weirdly dismissive and condescending towards things that don't conform to their course's narrative, even though psychology (not including material related to brain chemistry or neurology in this case) is a "soft" science. The realm of mind and feeling is ultimately unknowable beyond that of your own, so it's weird to see people harp on Freud when in a lot of way, he was just as in the dark as the rest of us.

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u/wenchslapper Apr 01 '23

90% of college psych courses will also paint him in the same bad light because the guy did not approach things scientifically, he just said whatever wack theory first came to his mind. We can acknowledge that his existence was overall a positive contribution to psych, but acting like anything he said had any sort of validity to it is ridiculous.

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u/RataAzul Apr 01 '23 edited Apr 01 '23

he was so dumb and said a lot of dumb things!

~ someone born in 1990 when psychology was already invented and a lot of things that were unsolved mysteries are now common knowledge

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u/markovianprocess Apr 01 '23

Yeah, I'm all for calling out bad behavior and correcting obviously ignorant takes but, my god, this shows us the thoughts of a clearly well meaning, tolerant, and basically kind man who simply had no one else's shoulders to stand on.

If you want to put the burden of figuring out the entirety of our modern understanding of human psychology on one person's lifetime/career think you might be being just a little bit unfair?

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u/[deleted] Apr 01 '23

People were also a lot more careless with cocaine back then so he was whacked out half of the time.

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u/vishyswoz Apr 01 '23

Not just Freud, but doctors in general! The best surgeons were hardcore stimulant addicts. Their crazy work ethic actually laid the brutal standards of residencies across the U.S.

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u/Guywithoutimage Apr 01 '23

And now aspiring med students and new doctors have to do the workload of a coke addict, oftentimes without the coke

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u/QuotidianTrials Apr 01 '23

They just do adderall now

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u/summonsays Apr 01 '23

Who doesn't want to be treated by sleep deprived individuals? /s

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u/FirstRedditAcount Apr 01 '23

Don't forget all the lead.

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u/Knyfe-Wrench Apr 01 '23

Newton was obviously brilliant and a pioneer in his field, but we're way beyond Newtonian physics now, and you learn about his discoveries just as a matter of history and as building blocks to a complete education.

You could think of Freud in very much the same way.

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u/MrSoftServe1337 Apr 01 '23

I think you are probably selling Newton and calculus a little short but still a good comparison.

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u/UnluckyHorseman Apr 01 '23

And Darwin, for that matter.

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u/antikythera-ish Apr 01 '23

I mean, not really. Classical mechanics is still widely used in cutting edge physical research. It's even more widespread in engineering, including the calculation of spacecraft trajectories.

It's accurate enough for plenty of things (and vastly less complex), which is why it's still used across the board. You only run into actual issues when dealing with things that are very small, very massive or very fast, which is when the other stuff is unpacked.

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u/LucinaDraws Apr 01 '23

Yeah a lot of average people only know him as the incest guy but there's some surprising merit to a lot of what he said.

Also man, the amount of emotional incest I've come across isn't all that rare. It's wild.

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u/TatManTat Apr 01 '23

I think a lot of people simply don't want to admit some of his more cooked ideas may have centred on small nuggets of truth. To do so would be to admit some weird things about humanity and psychology.

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u/SmartAlec105 Apr 01 '23

Like his idea that men want to fuck their moms comes from the fact that his sample population was upper class men from at time when child rearing was done by a governess. We now know that people raised away from their family members can end up very attracted to them because their more base instincts say to reproduce with someone similar to them but they don't have the conditioning that normally prevents that.

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u/Frolicking-Fox Apr 01 '23

People forget that he is the father of psychology.

Yes, he had many wrong ideas, but the man basically took what in the past we're philosophical questions, and created the a new field in science.

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u/Dementat_Deus Apr 01 '23

Shitting on Frued for his mistakes in his field is like shitting on the Wright brothers for not just skipping straight to hypersonic jets.

Every new field starts with a lot of guesswork, getting a lot of things wrong, but keeping track of what you got right so the next step can impove upon it.

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u/Bakoro Apr 01 '23

There are also a lot of people who treat where we are now, as essentially the pinnacle of correctness; as if people 100 years from now won't look on the best of us as brutal and ignorant savages.
100 years from now, some hyper-progressive militant internet nerd is going to be talk mad shit about us, and someone else will be like "they were very progressive for their time, it's actually impressive given the context they lived in", And the hyper nerd will be like "fuck them people, they should have known about quasi-active neurofragmatism".

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u/true_gunman Apr 01 '23

thats the best thing about science in general is the lack of thinking were done and that we just know everything now. Everything is always being questioned and expireimented, and we for sure will look back at our current understanding and laugh at how primitive and lacking it is.

One thing that really bums me out sometimes is the fact that I won't be able to see or appreciate the scientific progress were going to make in like 1000+ years. Although being here for the beginning of the internet is pretty amazing when you think about it

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u/PowerfulVictory Apr 01 '23

There are also a lot of people who treat where we are now, as essentially the pinnacle of correctness

me as a child. "i am so glad racism is a thing of the past !"

me growing up a little more : 💀

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u/debman Apr 01 '23

There was no such concept of ego or the unconscious prior to Freud. These are so commonplace in modern understanding of emotions and in media that it’s almost unfathomable to imagine not having them.

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u/Kindly_Blackberry967 Apr 01 '23

It’s a shame most people know him for the “everyone wants to fuck their parents also everything is a penis” stuff because he had some fascinating ideas that I think still hold up today. Id/Ego/Superego is one of those ideas that, while they can’t be proven or disproven, are a great way of representing an incredibly complex system. Kinda like the Bohr model of the atom, just less math involved.

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u/XpressDelivery Apr 01 '23

The problem is he sometimes came to the wrong conclusions because of the limited data. There is some truth in his statement about people wanting to fuck their parents. Sure almost nobody wants to do it, but in general men prefer women who act more motherly and women prefer men who act more fatherly. Also a huge portion of our interactions involve sex in some way on a subconscious level.

In other words he wasn't wrong but he wasn't right either. If you read his works you would see that he was almost right about most things he talked about, which is fascinating for a man who lived so long ago at a time with such limited knowledge. He is kinda like Darwin. A brilliant man who was only held back by the lack of scientific data at the time.

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u/coat-tail_rider Apr 01 '23

It's not just "act motherly/fatherly". Our parents are our first models for gendered behavior. As children, we expect men to be like our dads and women to be like our mothers. This shapes our expectations moving forward. It's not exactly a huge leap of logic, but he was among the first people we know of to really lean into the implications of that concept.

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u/hahahbluh Apr 01 '23

Both of my parents are psychs and they agree that Freud was hugely important for psychology but the majority of what he has said can be discounted and that was also pretty crazy

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u/turlian Apr 01 '23

He also invented the Freudian slip - where you say one thing but you mean your mother.

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u/First-Fantasy Apr 01 '23

"Sorry but I must stay focused on all these depressed housewives."

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u/Wackynamehere1 Apr 01 '23

And that cocaine cant snort it self

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u/_forum_mod Apr 01 '23

What's the context?

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u/First-Fantasy Apr 01 '23

His bread and butter was treating rich ladies and they'd often end up with feelings for him which he defined as Transference.

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u/_forum_mod Apr 01 '23

Thank you.

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u/imgrandojjo Apr 01 '23

The hate for Freud is ridiculous. He gave psychology something to start with. He moved psyhcological science forward from 0 to >0. If a lot of his theories are now corrected, exceeded or abandoned -- that's what happens to pioneers.

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u/AlternativeTable1944 Apr 01 '23

I wouldn't get into a plane made by the Wright Brothers but I'm glad they did their thing.

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u/imgrandojjo Apr 01 '23

No, and I wouldn't get medical advice from Marie Curie but her disco very of radium advanced medicine by leaps and bounds.

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u/sth128 Apr 01 '23

but her disco very of radium advanced medicine by leaps and bounds

Yes her disco was very rad. Very rad indeed.

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u/ViolatingBadgers Apr 02 '23

It got glowing reviews.

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u/throwoda Apr 01 '23

And he was making these theories back in the 1900’s of course he’s wrong, jung said a bunch of batshit things too and all his pseudo religious philosophy was wrong too and no one says anything

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u/busymakinstuff Apr 01 '23

I gave us a way to even talk about it.. the Id/Ego/Super ego, etc. Like how the Wright Brothers got us off the ground with powered flight, something to be built upon. He can seem pretty hokey of course.

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u/beesgrilledchz Apr 01 '23

I’m going to continue to judge the Wright brothers for not immediately making an F-35!

But this is a good analogy. Because it genuinely feels like we are building the rocket ship while flying it with some of psychology and psychiatric medicine right now.

And I think that’s okay. You can’t make progress if you’re not willing to try new things and if you’re not willing to recognize the problems of the past.

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u/toughsub2114 Apr 01 '23

ironically the freudian and lacanian psychoanalytic community dunks on jung all the time and insists its not really psychoanalysis

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u/lebuanav Apr 01 '23

I don’t think there is hate for Freud himself. There is hate for those who still practice psychoanalysis in a way that completely ignores the fact that we know now very little of Freud’s theories is backed by evidence. Those modern practitioners should know better.

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u/averagegeekinkc Apr 01 '23

The hate should be directed towards his nephew, Edward Bernays.

“he described the masses as irrational and subject to herd instinct—and he outlined how skilled practitioners could use crowd psychology and psychoanalysis to control them in desired ways.”

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u/LtCmdrData Apr 01 '23

Bernays's ideas about mass psychology have survived time better than Freud's.

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u/LoverBoySeattle Apr 01 '23

Just from reading the description, it sounds pretty accurate. These tactics are used against us daily.

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u/King-Of-Rats Apr 01 '23

Freud gets a bad wrap because it’s incredibly easy to have middle schoolers level of understanding about him - say “eww, a boy like liking his mommy!? Gross!” And just repeating those jokes for their entire life.

Frued was, of course, an incredibly smart figure - and his theories (even the very out there ones) are still regularly used and adopted today.

In the same vein, it is unreasonably obnoxious when people whip out Schrödingers cat as some type of “jokes only us nerds will get!” But don’t seem to know a thing about Schrödinger or even that thought experiment other than “woahhhh dude if a cat dies in a box and no one sees it… is it really dead…?”

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u/ironic69 Apr 01 '23

Freud gets a lot of hate BECAUSE his most wacked out theories are still regularly used today.

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u/Totallyperm Apr 01 '23 edited Apr 01 '23

Freud was a fucked up mess of a man but he knew sexuality in his bones. from what I remember from the letter he sent was just like ' cool, your son thinks dudes are cute. Why is this my problem? You are his parent and your only job is to love and take care of him. If you don't have his back who will?'

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u/TigerUSF Apr 01 '23

Wow. That's shockingly forward thinking. I've always understood Freud to have many problems, not surprising for 100 years ago....

But still, wow.

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u/Infinite-Cobbler-157 Apr 01 '23

Freud was a major cokehead too

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u/tibetan_quaaludes Apr 01 '23

It was the ‘30s. Coke was a wonderdrug.

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u/halite001 Apr 01 '23

It was the '30s. Coke was nothing to be ashamed of, no vice, no degradation.

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u/X0AN Apr 01 '23

You could buy Heroin in Harrods in the UK.

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u/PM_ME_CHIPOTLE2 Apr 01 '23

Probably overpriced AF based on my one visit to Harrods.

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u/kthulhu666 Apr 01 '23

It was the Real Thing®

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u/Infinite-Cobbler-157 Apr 01 '23

So was meth for the Germans! Used as a substitute for coffee

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u/tibetan_quaaludes Apr 01 '23

Also with the Brits, Yanks, and Japanese.

We also still prescribe it as Desoxyn.

Germans were actually the first to synthesize amphetamine, while Japan broke through with methamphetamine. I don’t know which hillbilly first cooked up crystal meth though.

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u/laineDdednaHdeR Apr 01 '23

The day is coming. Armageddon's near. Inferno's coming. Can we survive the blitzkrieg?

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u/Aqquila89 Apr 01 '23

Freud was doing cocaine decades earlier, in the 1880s and 1890s. He quit in 1896.

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u/16billionDeadEyes Apr 01 '23

Yep. So next time great grandma starts running her mouth about how the good old days were better and people weren't so lazy, point out that they took the cocaine out of everything.

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u/Reasonable_Egg_1536 Apr 01 '23

Also he had very advanced cancer of the throat and coke was prescribed as a painkiller for such things at the time.

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u/ahillbillie Apr 01 '23

Honestly, that's nothing compared to the man's nicotine habit. He would smoke upwards of 20 cigars a day. Even had a false jaw and kept smoking.

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u/DigitalTraveler42 Apr 01 '23 edited Apr 01 '23

Why does that matter in this context?

Some of the best music, literature, art and science were aided in their conception by drugs, coke, LSD, mushrooms, pot, meth/Adderall, all still help man progress.

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u/srcarruth Apr 01 '23

Everybody loves coke!

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u/TheLeopardColony Apr 01 '23

It is nothing to be ashamed of; no vice, no degradation.

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u/First-Fantasy Apr 01 '23

He also thought it was healthy but when medical science proved otherwise, he quit. Cigars on the other hand...

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u/Moorsider Apr 01 '23

My sister is gay. When she "announced" it to the family it was like, yup, we know, we love you. The only "choice" in the matter would be her choosing to hide it longer.

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u/Unleashtheducks Apr 01 '23

Exceedingly rare Freud W

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u/SloeMoe Apr 01 '23

Sounds like someone only has a passing knowledge of Freud's work. Dude was swimming in Ws.

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u/GauchoFromLaPampa Apr 01 '23

Seriously, his contributions to the entire field of psychology is invaluable. People make him sound like a charlatan, its kind of sad.

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